like i agree there's such a thing as a contrarian but every time i can recall seeing a specific person or view called contrarian it's been wrong and lazy
like, why's this person disagree with me? Cause they love disagreeing with obvious shit!
if you've cultivated your associations at all that's generally not going to be it
like seriously just reading Jim McGreevey's wikipedia article rocked my worldview because everyone in my family "knew" that jim mcgreevey resigned because he'd given his incompetent boyfriend a patronage position, and NONE of them had heard the "boyfriend"'s side of the story, that he was not a boyfriend and jsut a sexual ahrassment victim, or even knew that it all blew up cause he was suing Jim McGreevey for sexual harassment
like, just seeing the way a narrative could be controlled... damn
